The Model Many Parents Are Following That Ruins Their Child's Life Step 1

 The Model Many Parents Are Following That Ruins Their Child's Life Step 1



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How to ruin a child's life. I am Dr. Randy Kale. I've worked with lots of families, wrote lots of articles over the years, and this is a tongue -in -cheek video series about how you can really make sure that you end up with your son or your daughter living in your basement when they're 35 and really just sucking all the money out of your retirement fund. So let's go. I call it the weed model. So the first step in the weed model is weakness.

You must nurture weakness. How do you do that? By making sure that when they're young and when they're teenagers, you do everything for them. They can't have chores. They can't have responsibilities. You just make sure that whenever they could grow a muscle of independence that you simply step in there and take care of it. This will ensure they remain weak and under your wing. The first essential step to the weed model.

Now of course, I'm not recommending you do this.  Unfortunately, many parents are nurturing weakness in their kids.   Parents, foster good approaches to challenges and obstacles in your kids, to avoid having the results that the Weed Model will ultimately give you.

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