The Tantrum Fixer Approach to End Tantrums/Meltdowns
Temper tantrums are a topic of perennial relevance, except more now than ever. Why? Because Covid has pushed the limits of many homes, with children and teens learning to ‘rule the roost’ through demand and tantrums. To avoid living with meltdown after meltdown, many parents have just given in. Understandable during these times…but still quite problematic. Temper tantrums can range from a mild tantrum, where your child is stomping her feet and giving ugly looks to a more moderate tantrum, which might include some kicking, punching, or throwing. But there are extreme tantrums! Some of you are dealing with these out-of-control moments, where there is screaming, relentless kicking, and punching, as well as tears and a meltdown that seems to last forever. And what if these tantrums don’t go away? What does that look like at age 10, 12, or even 14? Well, it’s safe to say…not pretty. And it’s also safe to say that things will morph into more challenges both for parents and for the teenag...